To My dear girls Dads

You have never gave any freedom to your daughter, from her very young age you train her to be like her mother who is living her worst life and she spent her major time only from walking to kitchen and hall. You never gave ears to your daughters and you will tease her with giving of a little freedom then and there once in a while, like sending her to an excursion during her school, to show off yourself as a man who would do anything to your kid. But that innocent girl never knows that that will be the maximum thing you could do to your daughter.

You drink, you smoke and you were never nice to your partner, but you pretend to be. You might have got beaten by police-men on roads or even on a scam that is yet to be arrested and you will be behaving like you are ruling the world inside your home.

After her 16's you start to restrict her more and she is not allowed to be like before and you will grow a coward and at this time she will be in a mindset that all the men in this world are born drinkers by the way you are now. And she doesn't want to get married to any drunkard. But then and there you pretend to be a best dad by giving of some gold jewels. So, for her these jewels are the most precious thing and that’s the way you taught her. The distance between two longest things in this world could be measured by the way you give freedom to your son and the way you give freedom to your daughter.

She would like to dance or sing but you could watch some other girls dance but never let your daughter to do so, this is because the way you see a girl is awesome and you want to prevent your daughter from other males’ awesome vision like you do. You failed to teach her courage but tell her that girl should have politeness. By this time she could have lost her dreams and she can see the world outside by hiding behind her school or college.

This is the way I came across many girls, who always have a fear to do what they wanted, from wearing a dress to having a male as a friend. So in your views all the guys at youth hood are there to peek at your girl and may be misuse. But I am sorry to say this, the way you rated guys will never be as bad as you are, you are stealing a girls freedom but that guy at her age will at least do something crazy to make her smile.

The most arrogant thing you do is, You give her education only to get a name in the society to showcase yourself in the name as you are fulfilling your daughter’s needs. But the course she has chosen is your choice. Then the conclusion of most of your part is, even the invitation you printed for your daughters marriage knows that her heart is filled with love but she just accepts to your voice and your part will be continued by another drunkard from your same caste, religion and some more relevant things, the only thing missed will be you have forgotten to see whether their heart matches which is not important to you. And your part will be replaced by someone as her husband and this continues.

Disclaimer : If you think your dad provides you everything including freedom then you are an exception. 

Yours bloggingly,

Karthi Sukanthan 

Two Life Quotes, Better Explained

Never Compare Yourself With others… Never..!!

“If you’re comparing yourself with others, you’re insulting yourself.”

Your classmate got higher grades than you? , Your Colleague got a raise, but not you? You’re in no position to compare them with you and whine. They got what they deserved, so as you. Even, if you’re that person who got higher grades or salary, you must not compare you with them and shouldn’t be thinking you’re the better man than the other person. This is not the end. You can reach more heights.  Everyone has a unique life and unique talents. Be happy with what you got.

Also, never allow someone to compare you with others. Instead of explaining them, show your uniqueness and let them realize. And those puny humans, who compare themselves with you and jealous of you all the time; better, stay away from them.

Worrying And Caring About The Future

                Generally worrying about things can harm you in more ways. It is a waste of time; things will not get solved just by sitting and worrying; it spoils your health too; Think of it, does worrying about things that are not in your hands will be of any use? We are supposed to live the present without having a thought about future. Anyway, it’s not practically possible for many of us. Meanwhile, caring about future, differs a lot from worrying. Caring starts right at the moment you stop worrying.

Consider this simple scenario; you’re waiting for the train on a late night, which you don’t know the arrival time.

·         Worrying: Simply sitting on the platform, looking at your watch and crushing your mind with unwanted fears.   

·         Living the present: You know, there will be a train arriving; be cool; doing any other things that makes the moment interesting; somehow you’re gonna go home.

·         Caring: You ask some stranger nearby or walk to the time table; know the arrival time; stay relaxed.

Hope this helps. Caring is somewhat better than worrying. But, it’s suggested worldwide to live the moment.

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Recap of The Week: The Prestige

Three Men show proudly presents you the new featured post ‘Recap of the week’. From now on, every week there will be a recap. We’re going to recap movies that are epic and remain unknown to the most of us Indians. These posts will have solid reasons, why you should consider watching the recapped movies. Let’s get into the first one.

The prestige(2006) - a supernatural thriller movie by Christopher Nolan. The plot travels on a rivalry between two magicians Alfred Borden and Robert Angier in a non-linear way. The word prestige has given a marvellous explanation in the movie, 'Every magic act has 3 parts. First one: The pledge - the magician shows you ordinary something. Second one: The turn - the magician turns that ordinary something into extra-ordinary, (like disappearance). You wouldn't clap yet. Because, making something disappear isn't a big thing, the magician should bring it back that’s the third one called The prestige'.

The whole movie is a magic trick. Once you've seen the movie you’ll be fooled and will be looking for the secret (which is mentioned in the movie itself). I bet many have ended up watching the movie twice or more. I'm one of them. Apart from the excellent screenplay Alfred Borden’s dedication towards his work gives us a good habit to pick up. The movie is based on a novel by Christopher Priest. The movie casts well-known actors like Christian Bale, Hugh Jackman, Scarlett Johansson, Michael Caine etc. Still, It haven’t reached many ears and eyes.

I don’t want this post to be a spoiler for those haven’t watched. May be I can’t write well about a storyline without being a spoiler, as it is my first post about a movie. But I'm sure even a word about the story can be a spoiler.

Christopher Nolan is one of the most gifted film-makers of our generation. You’ll realize this when watching this movie. ‘This deserves your movie bucket list’. You won’t get disappointed by sparing your time with the movie. Share your valuable thoughts about the film in comments..!!

Diogenes - The Legend

This time it’s about a saint who showed us how to live. Even Alexander the Great, had a change in him after he met this saint. I said 'Alexander the great' because no one seems to respect someone near who is more priceless. They need to be authorized by someone who had some prefix or suffix like Alexander. So the saint name is Diogenes. I don’t know how many heard about Diogenes, but he should be known like how we know Sachin. 

When Alexander came across India, he heard about this great man and he really want to meet him. So he is searching for Diogenes and came to know that he was taking sun bath near a river bank. The King is really embarrassed to meet him, but he didn’t find any movement in him as he is just lying naked and the king is waiting for him. After a long time he went near Diogenes to wake him, but the saint opened his eyes and inquired about his arrival. Alexander replied that he had heard about him and wanted to see him.

The saint then asked him who he was. Alexander is surprised and told him that he is Alexander the Great and inquired him with exclamation that how could he never come across a great king who ruled most part of this world.

The saint then replied, ‘you call yourself as the great!!!’

Alexander then answered, ‘I am a king so called as Alexander the great’.

Then Diogenes told, ‘Oh!! So you have the superiority complex and you know what, superiority complex is a kind of inferiority complex. So, what’s your ambition?’  

The king then replied, ‘I now ruled most part of this world and I have to rule the whole world one day’.

The saint with a smile again inquired him, ‘After that?’

The king answered, ‘After that I want to relax with no work left and enjoy the world’.

The saint now said, ‘You could enjoy the world from now on why you wanted to wait for ruling the world? Do you find any connect?’

The king has no answer left and he started to think about what Diogenes has told him. Then he asked the saint whether he could do any favor to him.

The king thought he might ask him something that can’t be given, but to his surprise the wise man asked him to step aside as he wants sunlight to fall on him directly.

The man who almost ruled the world could give anything that he wants, but he just wanted him to step aside.

After this the king started to live without wars and there is a coincidence that Diogenes and Alexander left this world with the story all known that Alexander dead with the stretched hand. Alexander’s last message to the world is an inspiration from an Indian saint.

As a Conclusion, Proud to be an Indian, but don’t hurt other countrymen just because you’re Indian because you will be categorized even within this nation from state to state because the border lines are everywhere. 

Source : A song without words - Osho 

Google is watching you. Be Afraid.

Is your privacy safe on the internet? Sadly, the answer is a big ‘No’.  If you allow Google, it can track whole of your online presence, starting from your most visited website to your casual search. Google uses your history for keyword suggestions to your search, adwords and many other Google products.

Unfortunately, most of us don’t know the fact that, other than browser history, there is a history called Google Account History. If you made this account history enable Google stores all of your browsing behavior. And the Default mode for this account history may be ‘Enabled’. Go to this link: https://www.google.com/settings/accounthistory login and see what Your History is. Here is what I got.

Google mostly uses these details for giving you a better internet experience and for displaying ads relevant to you. And now, it is know that those histories are efficiently utilized for an app called ‘Google Now’, which can give you notifications on your day to day life events. This history tracking phenomena works well, until it turns against you and causes trouble. For say, someone hacked into your account and viewed all your history, unimaginable right?

Good or bad, for those who think it’s weird to allow someone to enter your privacy, you may disable your search history. For those who think it’s okay, it’s Okay. For all of you fellow surfers, this post sends a message to you. “Google is watching you. Be Afraid. Be very afraid”.

Peace out..!!

Like, Share and Follow: There is a Difference

Every time whenever you have a problem you either want to share it with someone closer or mostly pray to god.

The first one we do in the belief that the closer one will give suggestion and the second one, we just want some miracles to happen to come out of problems. So, when the problem gets bigger we try to see whether there is any shortcut to come out.

It is known that god never answers soon. So everyone looks for someone similar to god, does some tricks, which looks odd and talks little philosophy. These kind of persons are groomed themselves like such and their mediator work between us and god starts. These kinds of people are in most religions and earn money through that. All they do is just give some advises or give a little confidence to overcome that. These preaching will surely be heard by every common man from their parents, friends, well-wishers and lovables. But everyone start believing that they are feeling some changes in themselves with the same words in a different version from the gods mediators. Well and good they had changes, but what about they caught and their real faces when tear off, do you still can feel changes in you.

The thing i found odd here is why you need to believe someone and follow him when he can still do flaws like you and a human like us. There are many who showed us how to live and are still living in our hearts like Buddha, Teresa, Periyar and from Jesus to Krishna we had enough to follow. To my knowledge there is nothing left to say something new because all the facts or things to get inspired is already said by someone lived before. If you want to follow someone new just follow them after they passed away in which they had no chance for behaving like normal humans.

So the best in my views is 'like' a living legend, share his views to others, +1 his services and follow him when he has nothing more to do as a human. 

Thanking you.

Yours bloggingly,

Sukanthan jai.

I, Me and Myself - An Indian Confession

Hi all, 

Let me introduce myself. I'm an Indian. I'm here to explain about my characteristics. You can see me everywhere.Turn to your left, I'm there. Turn to your right, I'm also there. If you’re alone, I'm you as well. I'm not the same one everywhere. I'm divided by languages, states, religions, castes etc. Still, I'm enjoying the so called “Unity in Diversity”. Mine is a developing country. Here is a list of things I do for my country.

Starting from little things, I always complain about my country’s pollution. But, I don’t have the patience to throw my waste in the bin. Yes, I litter everywhere I go. Not only littering, I can spit on the roadsides of my country. I hate corruption; I bribe people to get my things done faster. In short, I cheat my government, every way I can and I expect favours from my government. I shout at piracy; I download and watch movies that released a day before, instead of going to a movie theatre. I curse people who asks dowry; I can’t accept a girl without dowry.

Agriculture is the backbone of my country and I've done no good to agriculture since my birth. I love nature; I kill trees for my home and business. I whine about accidents; I hardly follow any traffic rules. After all of this, I've many other unique specialities which, can’t be shrunk into a blog post. I show my patriotism, philanthropy, social awareness, public interest and everything else only on social media. I will not take any steps further

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I wonder how many of me are going to understand this self-criticizing post and let go the few mentioned characteristics that are harmful to myself and my nation as well. If one does, I’m happy that I achieved something.

I should change myself.

Honestly,

You.

Photo courtesy: JS Photography